Oops, I just read the answer to "Reading a preset from hardware into MIDI Designer", and the answer there seems to indicate that SysEx faders don't "listen" to their own messages when echoed back to them.
Ha, of the course my next question then becomes, "Could you make them behave that way?" Ha, as if you don't have anything else to do! Well, if you could do it, I can't think how it would be harmful in any way... You'd have to read each byte as it comes in and ask, "do we have any sliders whose output byte #n is the same as this nth byte?" Eventually all but one slider will have been ruled out... I suppose the difficulty is that one byte will contain the variable v, and that byte in general will not be a match with the current setting...